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We are one of many Sands support groups throughout Scotland offering support to anyone when a baby dies during pregnancy or after birth. The death of a baby is a devastating experience. The effects of grief can be overwhelming and parents, their family and friends can be left feeling dazed, disorientated, isolated and exhausted.

It can be hard to take in information, to make decisions or to imagine how you are going to cope. Sands befrienders understand what it's like as many of us have been through this experience ourselves; we are here to help offer support and information when you need it.

Support for all
The death of a baby can happen to any one of us. What brings us together in Sands is the common experience of this painful loss. Your baby may have been stillborn or died during or shortly after birth. He or she may have spent time in special care. It may be that your baby died at an earlier gestation or that you had to make the difficult decision to end your pregnancy. We offer support whenever a baby dies.

As well as supporting parents, we also help support siblings, grandparents, aunts and uncles. Many people may be touched by your baby's death, including friends and health professionals.

You may not want support or information from us right away. We are here to help whenever you feel you need it. That may be now, in a few weeks, months or even years.

Our core aims:
Sands is a national charity, established by bereaved parents in 1981.

We have 3 core aims which are to:

Support anyone affected by the death of a baby;

To work in partnership with health professionals to improve the quality of care and services offered to bereaved families;  

To promote research and changes in practice that could help to reduce the loss of babies' lives

It is not our policy to make the initial contact with bereaved parents, rather we prefer parents contact us when they feel the need.  

We are therefore dependent on parents being referred to us by hospital staff, health visitors, G.P.’s, social workers, etc.  We circulate the list of meeting dates and befriender contacts to all

The befriender’s list also provides parents with a telephone contact for use in times of stress.  

(Please note that all our befrienders are volunteers, and there may be times when we cannot always take your call. Please leave a message and our befrienders will call you back)

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The Glasgow Sands organisation produces support leaflets, these are normally provided to bereaved parents during their stay in hospital and can also be collected from our Support Meetings. 

Health Professionals can request these leaflets and we will issue you free of charge copies as required - Please click to view leaflets and how to order 

Glasgow Sands donate quarterly to the National Organisation who are working to promote research and improvements in practice which could save babies' lives.



This section contains first hand experiences written by parents and their relatives about the death of their baby, plus a selection of poems and memorials. Please click on the links to read more.



Parents Experiences Relatives Experiences Poems/Memorials

Fundraising with Glasgow SANDS

Glasgow Sands is a charity that receives no goverment funding, all financial support comes from fundraisers and their wonderful efforts.  Losing a baby not only affects the immediate family but friends and the extended family too. Find out how you can help...


 

Add a Memorial Page
Add a Memorial Page
Within the Chapel of Rest at each of the maternity hospitals across the city, and at Wishaw, Glasgow Sands befrienders work with the staff to maintain memorial books.  These leather bound books are available for all to read. For the Southern General you will need to request to view them at the maternity Hospital.


Should you wish to add a page you can - click here to find out how



 

We are so sorry that your baby has died.

 

Memory BoxIt may feel very hard to take in the reality of what has happened and to have any thoughts of what to do next. However, many parents have told us how important the memories of the short time they have with their baby are and that they have found it comforting to have reminders that they can look at and hold.

This ‘Always Loved, Never Forgotten’ memory box is given by Glasgow Sands as a way to create some memories which you can cherish.

 

Should you wish to request a Memory Box you can - click here to find out how